From Self-Discovery to Success: My Journey as a Trans Man

Wow it’s been awhile

It’s hard to believe how much life has changed since I last shared my story with you. Four years ago, I wrote about discovering my transgender identity (you can revisit that post here), and today I’m excited to share how far this journey has taken me.

This year marks my 6-year anniversary on testosterone, a milestone that feels both significant and ordinary in the beautiful way that progress often does. It’s been a full 8 years since I first embraced my identity as a trans man, a decision that continues to shape my path in profound ways.

Going Back to School

Four years ago, I made the decision to return to school, which has proven to be one of my best choices. I’m proud to have earned my business diploma in management, a moment captured in the photo below that still feels wonderfully surreal whenever I look at it.

The educational journey didn’t stop there. I’m now in the final stretch of completing my bachelor’s degree in Human Resources Management. Though school has certainly been a roller coaster of experiences, the positive has far outweighed the challenges.

Navigating Identity in Daily Life

Perhaps the most profound shift has been in how I move through the world. Being consistently seen and recognized as a man creates a fascinating dynamic in my daily interactions. With each new person I meet, I face a choice: do I present simply as the man I am, or do I share the deeper context of someone who has experienced gender across a spectrum?

This decision, between straightforward acceptance and deeper authenticity, is one I navigate daily. It’s a privilege to have this choice, even as it presents its own complexities.

Professional Growth & Identity: Bridging Personal Experience with Professional Purpose

My transgender journey has profoundly shaped my professional trajectory in ways I couldn’t have anticipated when I wrote that first post years ago. As I complete my bachelor’s degree in Human Resources Management, I’ve discovered my calling as a psychological safety and inclusion specialist. This role draws deeply from my lived experience navigating gender identity in various spaces.

There’s something powerful about transforming personal challenges into professional expertise. The hyper-awareness I developed while navigating the world as someone whose gender presentation was evolving has gifted me with unique insights into what makes environments truly inclusive. I notice the subtle dynamics that others might miss, the small signals that tell someone they belong or that they should guard parts of themselves.

My approach to psychological safety is a blend of theoretical, practical, and personal. It’s informed by years of making split-second calculations about when to disclose my transgender identity, when to educate, when to advocate, and when to simply exist without explanation. These experiences have become invaluable tools in my professional toolkit.

To learn more about my work as a Psychological Safety Consultant, follow my Instagram

Where Personal Mission Meets Professional Service

While my work extends to creating inclusive environments for people of all backgrounds, I remain committed to supporting the transgender community specifically. I will continue providing specialized courses and coaching for transgender individuals and their families, offering the guidance and resources I once desperately needed myself.

For those of you following my journey, I’m excited to announce my upcoming course, Transform Your Gender Journey

This transformative online course provides a comprehensive exploration of gender identity, transition journeys, and holistic wellness for individuals across the gender spectrum. Through evidence-based content, personal reflection, and community connection, participants will develop a deeper understanding of themselves and how gender relates to their unique experience.

If you’re a transgender person seeking support or a family member wanting to better understand and support your loved one, this course offers a roadmap drawn from both professional knowledge and lived reality.

My story has always been about integration, bringing together seemingly separate parts into a cohesive whole. Today, that integration extends to my professional identity, where my personal journey and professional expertise don’t just coexist. They enhance each other.