Work With Me
Coaching for People Ready to Live, Lead, and Grow Authentically
For years, I tried to become who everyone else expected me to be.
I was a Christian homeschooling mom of five. I spent years in denial, even putting myself through conversion therapy in an attempt to change who I was. Eventually, I learned something that transformed my life:
The path to fulfillment isn’t becoming someone else. It’s becoming more fully yourself.
Today, I help individuals navigate change, overcome self-doubt, and build lives, businesses, and leadership styles that align with who they truly are.
Whether you’re looking for personalized coaching support or a structured mental fitness program, there’s a path for you here.
Choose Your Coaching Experience
1:1 Life & Business Coaching
Personalized support for the life you’re creating.
Life doesn’t come with a roadmap.
Whether you’re navigating a major transition, building a business, stepping into leadership, exploring your identity, or simply trying to figure out what’s next, coaching provides a space to gain clarity, confidence, and momentum.
Our work together is entirely personalized.
We’ll focus on your goals, your challenges, and the opportunities that matter most to you.
Together We May Explore:
- Life transitions and personal growth
- Authenticity and self-expression
- Confidence and self-trust
- Business growth and entrepreneurship
- Leadership development
- Boundaries and relationships
- Decision-making and clarity
- Purpose and direction
- Accountability and action
What’s Included
- Weekly 60-minute coaching sessions
- Personalized coaching tailored to your goals
- Ongoing accountability and support
- Practical tools and strategies you can apply immediately
There is no rigid curriculum.
Just a powerful coaching partnership designed to help you move forward with greater clarity, courage, and intention.
Ready to Begin?
Book a complimentary discovery call and let’s explore what’s possible.
The Unbecoming Collective
A 9-Week Positive Intelligence® Group Coaching Experience
For most of our lives, we’re taught who we should be.
We learn what success is supposed to look like.
How we’re supposed to act.
What we’re supposed to want.
Who we’re supposed to become.
And somewhere along the way, many of us lose touch with ourselves.
Unbecoming is an invitation to let go of what no longer serves you.
Using the Positive Intelligence® framework, you’ll learn how to identify and weaken the mental habits that keep you stuck in self-doubt, perfectionism, people-pleasing, anxiety, and overwhelm.
Together, we’ll build the mental fitness needed to respond to life’s challenges with greater confidence, resilience, and self-trust.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t truly you.
In This 9-Week Experience You’ll:
- Identify the saboteurs driving stress and self-sabotage
- Build practical tools for managing difficult emotions
- Strengthen self-trust and confidence
- Develop resilience in the face of uncertainty
- Create healthier relationships with yourself and others
- Learn how to respond rather than react
- Connect with a supportive community of fellow participants
What’s Included
- Weekly group coaching sessions
- Positive Intelligence® app access
- Saboteur Assessment
- Daily mental fitness practices
- Community support and accountability
Perfect For People Who:
- Feel stuck between who they are and who they’re expected to be
- Struggle with self-doubt or imposter syndrome
- Are tired of people-pleasing and perfectionism
- Want practical tools for navigating stress and change
- Are ready to live more authentically
Next Cohort Begins July 6, 2026
Join us for nine weeks of discovering what becomes possible when you stop fighting yourself and start trusting yourself.
Which Option Is Right For You?
Choose 1:1 Coaching If:
- You want coaching tailored specifically to your situation.
- You have unique goals or challenges you’d like to explore.
- You prefer private conversations and individualized support.
- You want flexibility in what we focus on.
Choose The Unbecoming Collective If:
- You want a structured, proven framework for change.
- You struggle with self-sabotage, stress, or overthinking.
- You enjoy learning alongside others.
- You want an affordable entry point into coaching.
Many clients begin with the Mental Fitness Collective and later continue their growth through private coaching.
No matter where you start, the goal is the same:
Helping you build a life that feels authentic, aligned, and fully your own.
Why Work With Me
I’m not here to tell you who to be or how to live your life.
I’m a queer trans man and a life coach, and I work with folks who are tired of trying to contort themselves into versions that feel more acceptable, more productive, or more palatable. If you’ve spent years navigating systems that weren’t built with you in mind, you’re not broken and you don’t need fixing.
What you might need is space to hear yourself again.
My coaching is grounded in lived experience, not theory alone. I understand what it’s like to second-guess your instincts, to carry internalized expectations that aren’t actually yours, and to grieve versions of yourself you had to abandon just to survive. I also know what it takes to unlearn that and to start building a life that feels aligned, intentional, and sustainable.
When we work together, you won’t be asked to leave parts of yourself at the door. Your identity, your history, and your values are central to the work, not obstacles to overcome. I’ll meet you with curiosity, honesty, and care, while also holding you accountable to what you say you want for your life.
This work isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about becoming more yourself, with clarity, confidence, and direction.
If you’re ready to stop surviving and start building something that actually fits, I’d be honoured to walk alongside you.
Workshops & Training
Engaging, practical sessions tailored to your organization.
Topics include psychological safety, inclusive leadership, communication skills, and employee retention strategies.
Speaking & Facilitation
Inspiring talks and facilitated conversations on inclusive leadership, psychological safety, queer and trans workplace experiences, and culture transformation.
No pressure, no pitch — just an honest conversation about where you are, where you want to grow, and how I can support you.
