Queer Your Way
Awareness. Acceptance. Action. A course and coaching program for queer and trans folks ready to build a life that actually feels like theirs.
You’ve done the work of naming who you are. Maybe you’re questioning, mid-transition, newly out, or years into living authentically but still carrying old fear you haven’t put down yet. Now you’re standing at the harder question: what do you actually do with this? How do you build a life, a career, relationships, that reflect who you really are, instead of who you were told to be?
That’s what Queer Your Way is for.
The Framework: Awareness, Acceptance, Action
This isn’t a confidence pep talk. It’s a structured path built specifically for queer and trans experience, not a generic framework with your identity bolted on afterward.
Awareness
Getting honest about what you actually value, separate from what you were taught to want. A values exercise built to work whether your life looks like a straight line or not.
Acceptance
Letting go of the stories that have kept you small or hidden, without toxic positivity and without pretending the world’s hostility isn’t real.
Action
Concrete, practical steps, not just mindset work, focused on what’s actually within your control.
Who This Is For
- You’re questioning, coming out, or transitioning, at any age or stage
- You’re rebuilding your sense of self after religious or family trauma
- You’re tired of performing a version of yourself that never quite fit
- You want concrete tools, not just confidence-building talk
- You want support from someone who shares your lived experience
Not sure where you’re starting from? Take a short quiz to find out which stage of the journey you’re actually in right now.
How It Works: Group Coaching
Queer Your Way is offered as a small group coaching program, working through the course material together with real support and discussion, not just a workbook you complete alone.
Next 8 Week Cohort Starting Soon
Bi-Weekly live group coaching working through the full Awareness, Acceptance, Action framework together.
Investment: $297 CAD
A limited number of scholarship and sliding-scale spots are available in each cohort. Ask about this when you book your call.
Want Something More Personal?
If you feel like you want something more personal or one-on-one, book a call and we can talk through what you actually need and what I can offer. Group coaching isn’t the right fit for everyone, and there may be a better path for you.
Not Ready for a Full Cohort Yet?
If you want to try the Queer Your Way framework( formerly called Life on Your Terms )before committing to a cohort, Module 1: Awareness is a low-commitment way to start. It includes a video lesson and the full 5-step values exercise (Dump, Sort, Narrow, Check, Reflect) for $17.
*E-transfer available in Canada
What People Are Saying
“Dean has been valuable in my coaching journey as he provides empathetic support and guidance for really difficult topics. It has been positively impactful to have the support from a trans coach as a trans person, as Dean understands my journey on a much deeper level than I’ve experienced before. Thank you so much Dean.”
Anonymous coaching client
“Dean has been very helpful, I can be quite shy and he is very easy to talk to and gets me. He is very empathetic and compassionate which helps with a lot of the shame and guilt I sometimes feel when I am doing the course. Having someone a part of the same community that I am in also puts me at ease as he already understands a bit of what I am going through. I would recommend Dean to anyone looking for some coaching and some help.”
Andrew S.
Ready to build a life that feels like yours?
Book a free call and let’s talk about whether the founding cohort is the right fit for you.
